Cats Don’t Like to Be Alone – Busting the Big Myth

For years, people have said, “Cats are independent. They like to be alone.”But guess what? That’s actually a big myth! Cats might enjoy a little “me time” now and then, but most cats love having company—especially if that company is another friendly cat.

Where Did the “Lonely Cat” Idea Come From?

Cats became popular as pets long before we understood their behavior. People saw them hunting quietly or napping in the sun and thought, “They must prefer being by themselves.” But in the wild, many cats—like lions—live in groups called prides, and even solitary species often share space when there’s enough food.

House cats today are much more social than people give them credit for. They form strong bonds with other cats, with humans, and even with dogs (yes, really!).

Why Cats Prefer Company

If you’ve ever seen two cats grooming each other, curling up for a nap together, or playing tag around the house, you’ve witnessed “cat friendship” in action. Living with a buddy can make cats:

• Happier – Cats have someone to play with, nap with, and communicate with.

• Healthier – Play and social grooming reduce stress, which can help prevent illnesses.

• Less Bored – A cat left alone too much may scratch furniture, overeat, or act out simply because they’re lonely.

Just like people, cats need friends to feel safe and loved.

But Don’t All Cats Get Along?

Here’s the tricky part: Cats can be picky about their friends. If they weren’t raised with other cats or if introductions happen too quickly, they might not hit it off right away. That’s why introducing a new cat to your home should be done slowly, giving them space to adjust.

For families, this can even be a fun project! Set up a “safe room” for the new cat, let the cats sniff each other under a door, and then, over days or weeks, let them meet under supervision. With patience, many cats become best friends.

Cats and Kids – A Perfect Match

For kids, having two cats instead of one can mean double the fun (and double the cuteness!). They’ll see how animals interact, learn empathy, and discover the joy of caring for more than one pet. Cats can be wonderful companions for children, showing affection and teaching responsibility.

The Bottom Line

While cats enjoy a little alone time, most are happier in the company of other cats they trust. The idea that cats “like to be alone” is outdated. In truth, they thrive in loving, social environments—especially if they have a furry friend to share their day with.

So next time you think about adding a cat to your family, consider adopting two. They’ll keep each other entertained, stay healthier, and fill your home with twice the purrs, twice the play, and twice the love.